Breast bondage often begins with a chest harness, that is basic bondage, to which you can add other BDSM procedures, but it can be the main event itself. People of all sexes can enjoy breast bondage, but from where to start?
Safety is sexy!
First, engaging in any BDSM activity involves serious thinking about safety concerns; breast bondage is no different from this point of view. There are a multitude of issues to think about before tying up is started and it is important that they are carefully researched. Breasts are delicate and there may be significant repercussions from too close ties and/or impact, such as cysts. Everyone involved must be aware of these risks before proceeding.
If you are rigger (the one who executes the binding), communicate well with your rope bunny (the person who usually receives, as submissive), about how her wants to be bound - ask how tight, how painful and for how long she wants to keep the breasts tied. Also, keep checking the entire scene. Of course, don't forget the establishment and use of the safeword in advance!
Nobody wants the worst to happen, but you have to be prepared in case it happens! Make sure you have emergency scissors handy to cut ropes, the keys to release chains (or use carabines for quick and easy release), as well as a close first aid kit to treat any injuries that may occur.
Who can enjoy breast bondage?
People of any sex can enjoy breast bondage. The chest constitution dictates what harnesses and ties can be used. However, it doesn't matter who you are; you can have a nice harness for your chest. If some people say otherwise, well, avoid them.
For successful breast bondage:
- Check the tension by placing your finger under the rope to make sure it is not too tight;
- Do not attach knots to areas with nerve centers because it could cause nerve damage;
- It doesn't have to be perfect, it has to be fun!
Breast bondage can be the beginning of a BDSM session. Tied breasts are more sensitive. You can use other tools, such as a Wartenberg cog, nipple clamps or even hot wax to enhance the experience with breast bondage of your rope bunny. Or use your fingers and lips to tease her sensitized skin...
Tied breasts can easily remain with traces, the submissive who receives must be aware of this. It is good to have a conversation about how intense marks would be okay to appear after breast bondage sessions, as well as whether the rope bunny wants a certain level of pain. Masochists can enjoy the RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), but this is an extreme practice. In a BDSM session of breast bondage can be created intense sensations and many marks.
If you are not interested in pain or marks on the skin, there are many other pleasant ways to take advantage of tied breasts:
- Tickle the skin with a soft wedge, silk material or fingertips;
- Use ice cubes for an intense sensation play that will leave no mark;
- Use body paints to make your own brightly colored artwork.
You can have a lot of pleasure by tying your breasts, whatever you are, but remember to communicate to find out everything you need about the sensitivities and health condition of the receiving person, be aware of the risks and keep it safe!