We know that roleplaying can be a great way to explore our fantasies and spice up our intimate lives. Indeed, they can create very exciting moments!
Roleplay is popular among BDSM practitioners because it usually involves a certain degree of power exchange in the context of role fantasy. The majority of role pairs focus on a power imbalance between participants.
If roleplay is new to you, you may wonder what types of roles can be put into practice.
In this article, there are some classic ideas of BDSM roleplays. See if some of them are appealing to you and to your partner!
Teacher / Student
Who did not have a crush on a teacher at some point? The attraction of this fantasy makes sense, doesn't it?
The guidance of an experienced, benevolent Educator, or, on the contrary, very strict and domineering, can be very exciting.
This type of fantasy may involve "study" and "themes", but often focuses on old-fashioned disciplinary methods involving spanking, paddling, caning or other forms of corporal punishment, as well as detention and corner time for naughty "schoolgirls" or "schoolboys".
Submissives, find sexy uniforms and go breaking a few rules... then enjoy the disciplinary punishments imposed by your Dominators!
Physician / Patient
There is often a lot of vulnerability, fear and care involved in medical interactions, which makes this kind of play particularly exciting for those who love medical plays.
These scenes can involve invasive "examinations", needles plays, clamps and more!
How weird but wonderful does that sound?
Medical fetishism is considered an advanced form of play by many in the BDSM community, because the activities involved require special safety considerations. Make sure you have studied and got enough information by reading papers written by qualified professionals before going to action.
If you want to dive forward into performing riskier medical play procedures, such as scalpel, urethral play or saline infusions, it is recommended that you seek the help of an experienced member of the BDSM community of which you are a part to learn how to perform correctly and safely.
Bottom line: do not try anything you are not qualified to do.
Protector / Little
This is a title often given to role scenes in which the Top (Master) acts as the father, mother, older relative, nanny, and the bottom (submissive) plays the role of the person being cared for. We have all heard of adult women who like to call their lovers "daddy," right? Same concept.
This usually involves "ageplay" which means that the submissive acts as a young person, from baby to adolescent age, as desired, and the Dominator older than the playing partners are in reality.
It is a misconception sometimes found in the vanilla world that "ageplay" practitioners are adepts of paedophilia or incest, which is not true.
Exciting in the ageplay are the affection, care and guidance practiced by the Protector, at the same time as the emotional freedom experienced in the return to a childish state of mind, of the submissives.
This type of BDSM scenes could involve diapers, pacifiers, plush toys, afternoon sleep time, but also spanking or other corporal punishment combined with sexual interactions.
Kidnapper or Thief / Victim
This can be a fairly intense form of roleplaying centered on the fantasy of rape and non-consensual consent.
The dominant partner plays a kidnapper or intruder and acts in force, imposing his will on his victim, innocent and confident.
This type of scene requires serious planning in order to be carried out safely and consensually. It takes study and experimentation before moving on to action.
Kidnapping plays, often called kidnapping scenes, can become an extremely complicated fantasy covering several days. There are also some BDSM professionals who specialize in satisfying this type of fetish.
Executor of law / Convict
Handcuffs and uniforms!
If the idea of breaking the law and then paying for it attracts and excites you, the prison play scene is right for you.
Since prisoners are incarcerated separated by sex, this type of roleplay is suitable for same-sex BDSM partners.
Interrogation can be a wonderful form in prison play. Dominators can tie up their partners and "torture" them to make them say the "secret information" they are after.
Be creative, but, as always, be careful to act safely!
Owner / Pet
Miaw, miaw, woof, woof!
The pet play is in vogue: many people love this type of roleplay and find pleasure in dressing up in dogs, cats or ponies costumes, imitating their behavior.
Submissive people who love this type of play feel liberated to be in this mental state that gives them the opportunity to play what would be not possible in other circumstances.
In addition, domesticated animals are easy to control, which is very exciting for the power exchange relationships .
The protocol of training pets and punishment are the essence of this type of play. But the domineering partner can also order but plugs with tails, dog, cat or bunny ears, leash and collars as well as other seasonings of the play.
Head / Employee
Although sexual relationships between bosses and subordinates are not recommended, a juicy "office" role scene can be truly exciting if you like to break the taboos on your personal-professional relationship.
This type of play can involve tasks, punishments, office outfits...
"Disobedient secretary! I told you to file these reports more than an hour ago! Maybe a good spanking would help you focus!
Get over here and lean over my desk! Mmm, appetizing!" ...
Master of the house / Housekeeper
A personal housekeeper to cook and clean my apartment? Let's go to it!
Dominators, order your maids how to make your house look, and punish them if they fail to do exactly what you asked!
And see if you can find a sexy maid costume for your submissive to help her get into the role. There are really nice and exciting possibilities for that.
Billionaire / ordinary person
Many of us would like to be taken over and dominated by a rotten rich partner!
That is probably why the multi-millionaire Dominant is the most used gender in the BDSM literature and "Fifty shades if grey" has sold in so many copies!
Millionaires can certainly afford all kinds of luxury BDSM amenities and tools to treat their parters very well.
Even if you are not at this level of wealth, there is nothing wrong with playing, from time to time, the role of a multimillionaire and giving a wonderful weekend at a luxury hotel...
If you are A Dominator in this situation, put yourself in the multimillionaire's mind for the time of roleplaying: if you had all the money in the world, how would you treat your submissive? What would you offer her? What would you like in exchange for the hard-working money you would spend on her? Use your imagination, the sky is the limit!
Prince / Servant
Claiming the Sleeping Beauty is one of the most famous ideas of classic BDSM film, perhaps because being picked up and "tortured" by a beautiful prince is a subject of great interest. Disney has achieved something extraordinary with its fairy tale, then taken up in so many variations, including BDSM!
This type of role involves servitude, worship of the royal figure, sexual slavery, degradation and other possible BDSM specific procedures.
The total power exchange (TPE) between a Master and his slave, is perfectly shown in this type of play, because serving a royal person leaves no room for choices for the submissive, except to fulfill exactly the orders received, to obey without comment.
Here are ten roleplaying ideas to bring pleasure and fun to your lifestyle!
But do not limit yourself to them, be creative, make your own roleplaying scenarios.
Through roleplay, you and your playing partner can experience absolutely any type of fantasy and power dynamics.
Have a pleasant experience time, but, as always in BDSM, do not forget the negotiation and assumed consent, safewords and safe signs together with the aftercare to have a wonderful time playing with only happy effects!